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(Being a decent human being accounts for the other 110 percent*.) Because if you aren't showing up in kink spaces—online or IRL—your fellow kinksters won't be able to find or bind you. "The leather scene is a diverse place with tons of outlets and avenues, depending on how you navigate your life and learn," said Amp from Watts the Safeword (wattsthesafeword.com), a kink and sex-ed website and You Tube channel.
"When I was first getting started, I found a local leather contingent that held monthly bar nights and discussion groups that taught classes for kinksters at any level.
And if you do want to explore bondage, take precautions.
Never get tied up in your own home by someone you don't know.
If you go to his or her place, always tell a trusted friend where you are going.
And when hooking up online, never use Craigslist." "Be cautious," said Ruff of Ruff's Stuff blog.
(Also: There are tons of gay guys out there into spanking, SPANK.
The weird thing is, the only guys I can find to spank are straight. Seriously Perplexed And Needing Knowledge How do you know their new girlfriends don't start spanking them when you stop?
"There are people out there who view 'kink newbies' as prey.
Anytime anyone—top or bottom—wants to rush into a power-exchange scene, that's a red flag. A good-quality connection with any potential playmate is achieved only through communication.
For us straight dudes, however, being big and hairy means getting thought of as an ape—big, dumb, smelly oafs.
While I can be dumb, smelly, and oafish at times (like anyone), I'd also like to have a way to describe myself that is masculine yet attractive.